Boy or Girl???

We’re a week out and the polls are now open…will the next one added to our bunch be a boy or girl???  Vote on the survey on the side!

Clues that may be useful:
1.  Carrying about the same as Ceili Rain…a little low but not as low as she was.
2.  Cravings include:  chocolate (but I always crave that) and lots and lots of veggies.  Oh, the other night I was begging for hot chocolate chip cookies (and thanks to McDonald’s I got them).
3.  I definitely had a ton of nausea and a lot more actual sickness (besides the stomach bugs) than I’ve had with most of them.  That could have also been because of the progesterone I was one.  But I could not cook as I had not been able to with Zoe or Ceili Rain.

This is obviously just a fun game.  We are very excited that God has blessed us with another child…and will be thrilled whether it’s a boy or girl!  I just hope if it’s a boy, that we can actually call him something besides boy!

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Name Game Time…

Here we go again!  It’s exactly four weeks until ultrasound time.  And, surprise surprise, we are having trouble deciding on a boys’ name.  I had one picked out but was told recently that it was still be considered (amongst all the other options…which are none).  So we need ideas…

Here’s the rules from Ceili Rain…with a little revision/additions:

  1. No normal everyday run of the mill names. If it’s in the top 100 in the past few years then it’s out (okay, Zoe’s name was an exception but we had already chosen it before we found the name lists and it was waaaay at the bottom when we looked). So take out John, Robert, definitely William (since my cousins, all on the same side, think they should all have children named William…I digress).
  2. Points for choosing a name from history (that’s unusual) and/or a literary name (but has no history of immoral behavior).
  3. It has to mean something good. We don’t want a “hill” for a child nor do we want a “cart driver” or a “brook.” Also all the Mac/Mc names are out since they mean “son of.” Unless you want to name him McMark (hmmm). Here’s another example: Blaine, which I happen to like, means “tall and slender.” What if we have a short and fat kid? What a complex! Double check the meanings, I just didn’t associate that Liam’s name was the equivalent of “strong willed defender.” See what I got myself into! Another example: Zoe’s name means “life.” Ace’s name means “unity.” Josiah’s name means “fire from God.” Pretty cool names to live up to!
  4. It doesn’t have to be a Biblical name but…cool uncommon ones are welcome (meaning, no Hosea’s or Hananiah…although I like both, they just don’t flow for me).
  5. It has to go with his middle name that we’ve definitely settled on. It’s Ian and it means “God’s gracious gift.” Now, I know that Ian is a really cool first name, however, a friend from church (and I think a blog reader) has a child named Josiah and one named Ian and I don’t want her to think we’re copying her. Plus, I want an uncommon cool first name.
  6. Mark mentioned he would like a namesake.  I pointed out that usually the Juniors are reserved for the first born son and didn’t know if I felt comfortable naming a fourth son after his father when the other three were not.  However, if you can come up with a great way to incorporate Mark or Brian and make it unique, I’m all for it and will probably get a nod from Mark.

And this is for a boy’s name.  Given our history, picking out a girl’s name is not hard but a boy…phew…very tough to get unique with that.   So, best wishes and maybe you’ll see your name chosen on here in four weeks!  If you’ve got a cool name, post a comment on here.

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Baby #6 Update-12 Weeks

Today was a regular ol’ prenatal checkup.  And by regular, I mean nothing unusual happened, oh, except, we were able to hear the heartbeat with the doppler!

That was one of the sweetest sounds after all the issues at the start of the pregnancy.  We are truly grateful for another healthy baby and are praying this pregnancy will be “normal.”

Prenatals were drawn…and we discussed a lot of things with Dr. J.  One of the things was the subchorionic hematoma…because I didn’t have an ultrasound we don’t know if it’s been absorbed or if it’s still there.  However, he stated that with the fact that I have had zero issues that would be connected with a hematoma and the fact that it was really small, I should not have any problems to worry about with it.  The placenta is now strong enough to deal with the hematoma if it’s still there and my body were to pass it.

Because I have an awesome doctor and he knows I’ll let him know if something is wrong, I don’t have to go in for another seven weeks.  Which means, next appointment is ultrasound time and, prayerfully,  we’ll find out whether the baby is a boy or a girl!  Woohoo! 

Stay bundled up.  Zoe’s praying for two inches of snow tonight!  I hope she gets a “yes” on that prayer request!

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Takin’ it Easy!

We’ve had quite a week, hence my absence from the blog.  Wednesday afternoon, I received word from my doctor’s office that the blood draw they drew two weeks prior showed low progesterone.  They started me on prometrium, which is progesterone.  Now for those who don’t know much about pregnancy hormones, here’s the gist.  The range for progesterone during the early weeks of pregnancy is around 9 to 46.  My range was in the 9 range but not lower than that.  When a woman is first pregnant, her body produces extra progesterone until the placenta takes over.  A drop in a woman’s progesterone levels (or low levels…I never had a drop) can be a a signal of a miscarriage.   Progesterone is responsible for keeping the placenta/baby in place.  When levels drop, contractions can start and all that causes labor can start…which, in early pregnancy is a miscarriage.

So, all that to say, we went in to a regularly scheduled appointment on Thursday afternoon.  I was already scheduled for an ultrasound since the first ultrasound showed a 6 week baby (with heartbeat) and that’s considered too early (at least for my doctor) to be considered “viable.”  I was also having some upper back pains at the initial visit and I had a really weird cycle which was what prompted my progesterone level to be checked.  I went in with the full knowledge that our baby might not be with us and was prepared for the bad news, etc (even thought I almost threw up at lunch).  Mark could see the screen and watched intently.  He announced that the baby was bigger and all I wanted to know was that there was a heartbeat.  He found it before the tech said anything and signaled a thumbs up and I finally relaxed after 24 hours of holding my breath and praying hard for our little one.

We finished with the ultrasound and waiting on Dr. J.  Nurse D came by and told us that right now we had a very “delicate pregnancy right now” because there was a blood clot.   No heavy lifting, full pelvic rest, and she continued on and on.  We still weren’t quite sure what was going on.  Dr. J came in and told me that I had a subchorionic hematoma.  That’s a neat medical term that’s a new one I learned!  Anyway, what it is, in a nutshell, is a blood clot between the placental membrane and the uterus.  It’s not detrimental to me but if it suddenly ruptured or broke off quickly, it could be so to the baby.  In a majority of women, the clot will either be reabsorbed by the body or my body will pass it.  

So, Dr. J said to take it easy.

I stared at him and asked him to please define that.  He asked me what I did all day.  I just stared at him, “Uh, I take care of five children all day…”  So, he defined it as full pelvic rest, no exercising, no heavy lifting, no picking up things heavier than Ceili Rain, no stressful things, etc.  I’m not officially on bed rest.  I don’t think I will be unless I start bleeding.  My plan is to do as little as possible to get through a day to make sure our little one grows.  Dr. J wants things to “calm down down there.”  So with my prometrium, prenatals, and handful of movies, I am set to entertain the kids.  This just has to be for the next few weeks and then the baby should be good to go.  I’ll go back in at about 12 weeks for another check up.  No more progesterone levels checked, no ultrasounds scheduled yet.

All that to say, I should be able to keep the blog updated since I’m not going to be up in the kitchen (not that I feel like cooking), nor puttering around getting school done (although I have to get it ready for January)…it should get interesting around here!  Prayers for B6 would be much appreciated.  We love our little “kidney bean” already and are already thinking about the day we’ll meet him or her (Zoe’s hoping for another her by the way)!

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A Little About Our Bunch

Faith and Family
It’s been awhile since we’ve done a faith and family blog post, so I thought I’d share a little about our beliefs on faith and family.

I would not consider us to be a part of the “Quiverfull” movement in that we don’t expect everyone to have a ton of kids.  But, here’s our stance on kids and how it works for our family:

First of all, we believe children are a great gift from God.  Each child is created in His image and therefore, a direct work of our loving Creator. (Psalm 127:3-5)

We have always believed that God created marriage for us to have children and grow a legacy grounded in God’s glory.  It’s about us putting our selfish desires aside and seeking out what God wants for our marriage and our life.  We’ve been perfectly content, ecstatic even, in having children only two years after being married.  In fact, I’ve told Mark that if I had a do-over, we would have allowed God to work in our lives to have children earlier than later.  But, yet, God is more Sovereign than me and knew when I needed to have these babies.

After each pregnancy…well, when we got up to four kids for sure, we started to pray.  I think I’ve mentioned a time or two that I really thought we’d have four children and then adopt from there on out.  Filling our home with laughter and love from our own gene pool and then from others.  After Josiah (#4 if you’re trying to keep count), we began to pray both together and separately, and realized that while we still wanted to adopt, we didn’t see where God was telling us to quit having children and allow a doctor to stop us from having kids.  Lo, and behold, Ceili Rain was born about nine months later.

After Ceili Rain, we once again, took to praying and seeking out what God’s will was for our family and our lives.  It’s not easy, having five kids six and under.  Of course, a mom of one would say it’s pretty difficult and I totally agree with her.  For all of us, sinners, it’s hard raising sinners for the glory of God while trying to bring glory to Him ourselves.

Back on to my other tangent now:  So, we sought out God’s will.  We still did not feel a peace about surgically stopping our procreation abilities (that’s some fancy words for me huh).

One day, Mark looked at me while I was holding Ceili Rain and said, “Let’s have another one…well, I mean, let’s let God decide if we’ll have another baby.”  I knew this was what God had laid on my heart as well.

And so, about a month later, we found out baby #6 (well, #7, counting our little one in heaven) is on the way!
And now, let the negative comments, snide remarks, and goofy laughs begin!!  At least you now know why we have so many of these kids.  Our house is about to truly become a bunch of Characters!  Here we go on our adventure with our seventh pregnancy…can you just feel the anticipation!  And guess who God has allowed me the privilege of sharing this pregnancy journey with???

My dear sweet sister in law, who is on her sixth pregnancy but #7 baby (remember my two adorable twin nephews…not that all my nephews and nieces aren’t adorable, I’m just saying they are the latest adorable ones).

And here are the facts:  I’m not as far along as I thought and based on the ultrasound on Monday, I am about 6 1/2 weeks along.  I’ll go back in a few weeks for another ultrasound.  This puts me due July 2010.  We’re back on track (for now) having our summer and winter babies.

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