Camping Out

We picked Mark and Silas up from the airport and immediately drove to our church’s annual family camp.  It was such a great time to rejoice.  Emmie was brace free.  Silas was home.  Last year, we were in the middle of our adoption.  Emmie had just gotten the halo.  Life has certainly changed in a year!
These smiles ya’ll! The highlight of the weekend is the family olympics.  This year, Ceili Rain and I attempted the canoe race.  We did good.  Until we had to turn around and come back. Thankfully we didn’t tip over.

Mr. R let Liam get in some video training. One of the many things I love about our church is the sense of family.  Everyone helps.  So, if Malachi needed help with a game, one of the other “moms” stepped in to help!
Daddy is super talented…hold the toddler…throw the water balloon. Malachi has to be one of the cutest olympic competitors. Every year, there is a family scavenger hunt.  My kids, well, they are some pretty competitive kids (I have no idea where they got that).  The above picture was part of the hunt.  And yes, our kids won. At the camp, there is a small stone outcropping that they call Little Stone Mountain.  This is our trek up the hill. Halfway there and the view was already gorgeous. Made it!  So pretty. A little melodramatic re-play. Selfie on top of the rock. Someone forgot to tell our city girl that you need water to make the canoe go. Camp Dog Bandit and Emmie were fast friends. Well, Bandit is friends with everyone.

This is the picture where Emmie figured out she could smile sweetly and say, “cookie” to get a cookie before she finishes her supper.

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Welcome Home

Mark and Silas arrived home the first part of September.  After three weeks separated, we were all extremely thrilled ot see them all. Papa had a wonderful time seeing Eastern Europe for a week with Mark and Silas.  We were glad he made it home too!

Emmie was thrilled to see Silas.  Since it had been over a year since she had seen him, we were worried she would be a little apprehensive.  She was thrilled and had to give him a welcome home hug.

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August Randoms

Ya’ll, I might actually be caught up before 2018 hits…okay, don’t hold your breath.  Here’s the end of August…and our randoms.

Emmie got “Pwincess” pjs from Ge…and we just had to show them off.  A.dor.a.ble

Ice cream at Bruster’s is better if you’re in your swimsuit.  Just saying.  Don’t forget the pink bow. Having a crown is just as good. Mr. H goes to church with us and has notarized untold numbers of adoption documents and been rewarded a couple of times with supper on us.  Then there was that one day he had enough notarizing like a normal person and decided to do it in style.  With a box on his head. Smudge sensed something was up.  Again.  And did everything in his power to keep us from packing for our Ukraine/Grandparent trip.  He was not happy with any of us. Cute contemplative cookie eating. Girls in rollers…it’s a rite of passage in our house.

Just because Zoe is pretty and can do some pretty amazing things with her hair. Princess Emmie surrounded by lots of knights…traipsing through the fields. We enjoyed a subscription to Genius Box for the summer (and then three months after because I forgot to cancel it.).  Okay, we have four boxes sitting in our school area because I forgot to use them up but they will get used when we are at home with nothing to do.  Stop laughing ya’ll. Malachi’s first grown fruit…watermelon.  It was left too long on the ground and split.  But at least it was something. We got home from Josiah’s hospital stay and I walked in to the girls’ room and realized that one of the cats had used the bathroom in it.  Which resulted in me cleaning out the entire room and cleaning all the carpets upstairs.  Which resulted in rearranging the room.  Which resulted in the discovery that Emmie’s crib (bought used) was starting to tear up).  Which resulted in Emmie getting to sleep like a big girl…on the mattress…on the floor.  Which resulted in Zoe, Ceili Rain and I brainstorming how we could re-decorate their room.  Which we did this past December…and are still doing…so you have to wait on pictures of that. The night after we got home from the hospital.  Josiah wanted to crash on the couch.  So, we did. Zoe celebrated Urkainian Independence day in her traditional shirt and with a traditional hairstyle. My kids are awesome. And Emmie has shades…Her right eye (which is effected by Horner Syndrome from her first surgery) is very sensitive to light.  She finally agreed that wearing glasses was a good idea. This is pretty much how she spent her August.  At the water table, in a diaper.   Smudge is eating her toe??? We trapped a Emmie. And a Bryant. And an Emmie and a Bryant together. “Small but Mighty”  Yes, indeed.

The big news in our ‘hood in August was that Kroger opened up a marketplace with a Starbucks.  Um, yes.  Grand opening meant a cow was there to pet (some kind of creamery or something). Anyway, my kids enjoyed getting up close and personal with the bovine species.  It takes very little to entertain my city kids…okay, me too

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The Appendix

One day, while Mark and Silas (and Papa) were in Ukraine, Josiah started feeling bad.  Complaining of a stomachache, I dismissed it as a come and go thing.  When it didn’t go away the next day and he started walking a bit slumped over wincing when he climbed the steps, I thought it might be something a bit more serious.  When he couldn’t jump and started running a fever, we went to see his pediatrician.  Dr. B was not very happy with her assessment and sent us on to the ER and alerted the surgeons there.

After a couple of hours (and a bad assessment from a resident who, thankfully, was overridden by the surgeon and attending), we made our way to a room to await the surgeon to remove a very inflamed and pesky appendix.

He wasn’t too happy about being up until past midnight but managed a smile or two.   I was very grateful to have a laptop for him to watch videos while waited.

He fooled everyone in the ER because his attitude and pain level didn’t come through in his attitude.  He was so brave.  He pulled through surgery in the early morning hours and by the mid afternoon was able to sit up.

He got a special visit with former submariners who showed him a video and told him all about the subs.  He got a cool hat and an awesome picture.

I praise God for our wonderful pediatrician who knew what needed to be done right away.  We also had several friends and family who dropped everything and came to help me with the rest of the kiddos.  And for technology.  Mark spend most of the night (his early morning hours) on Google Hangouts talking with us and praying for Josiah.

 

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Meanwhile

Papa and Grandmere, once again, took on the crew while we were gone in August.  We missed the kids but several of them seemed to have a really hard time this time around.  I’m glad I was only gone for a week.  Grandmere and Papa were so good at sending us pictures of their daily adventures which made the separation much easier.

It was time to clear Papa’s garden and get it ready for winter season. The boys learned how to use the plow and also got to practice with the lawnmower (a preview for next year).

Clearing out the garden, they found several baby rabbits.

Emmie loved her Papa cuddles. They visited a family friend and his grandchildren (who are the children of our former classmates). Grandmere had the boys help her old so that she knew what clothes belonged to what boy.  A hard task when there are so many boys close in age. Learning to trim bushes. Silly face selfies.  Papa’s hidden talent. Bubbles are great for piggy back rides. Grandmere and Papa pulled out Mark’s old Nintendo and the boys were in heaven! How to tire kids out…take them to the park!
Ceili Rain asked for curls. The girls!   Emmie enjoyed helping Grandmere in the kitchen.

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Just Waiting

After Silas’s court date, we were blessed beyond belief when he was allowed to stay with us during our waiting period.  I stayed in country until that Friday and Mark stayed the rest of the time until Silas could come home.  Hopefully, eventually, Mark can blog about his time in Ukraine.  We were thrilled that they got to be there to celebrate their Independence day and that Papa was able to fly over to spend some time with them and seeing Ukraine!

For now, here are some photos from our adventures while I was there. We found a great park in Bila Tserkva with a fun ropes course. Just because he was standing there all handsome. There was a park near our apartment too.  Plenty of space for soccer and basketball… And climbing!

Cotton candy in Europe is a bit different than the US.  It was straight up just sugar.  No flavors, no artificial dyes etc.  Not our favorite but still edible.

My cooking went up a notch thanks to Google translate making sure I grabbed the right seasoning packets.

The sign in our elevator let’s us know not to use the bathroom in there.  Just an FYI.

Silas insisted we grab these tiger hot dogs.  Mark said they were terrible and only after he cooked them did he realize the stripes needed to be peeled off.

When I made it to the airport for my journey home, these beautiful art pieces were on display.  A photographer had taken classic art and re-shot them with Ukrainian scenes.  So much patriotism and pride for the country could be seen in each photograph.

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July Randoms

I will catch up in January!  I will!

Malachi preparing a wonderful dish for everyone. Sometimes two bows are better than one. Cuddles from Emmie mean so much more these days. When you have your hands full of milk but Hop Hop needs to hang out with you too. I walked in to the girls room and discovered this.  The army men have been defeated by the princesses.  Poor guys. Before Mark and I set out out on our travels, Tracy and I squeezed in some friend time.  We went fancy and opted for dessert at Cracker Barrel.  It was totally worth it too. Smudge is ready for school to start back. Reading. Seriously  ya’ll…cuddles with this girl are amazing.  We have eight months of cuddles to make up for. The kids’ pediatrician has chalkboards…this and books make my kids happy. Emmie praying.  The cuteness…ahhh We were able to dog-sit for a friend and the kids loved it to no end.  She is a very fun, very hyper yorkie mix and Sunny, our 14 year old, turned in to a giant puppy when she arrived.  They had a blast together.  But, when it was nap time, the puppy eagerly found a person to cuddle with.

And one more cuddle picture to end our July pics.

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Ace’s 12th

In July, we celebrated Ace’s birthday in style as usual.  He is definitely a lot like his daddy but has his own personality.  I can’t believe that next year we’ll have two teenagers!  

Uncle and Aunt B always give cool presents.  These socks were right up Ace’s alley.

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A Look Back…

This is our yearly Christmas/New Year Letter.  So here we pause, and take a look back at what 2016 held for us:

Our biggest highlights:

January saw our new son Silas still in Ukraine having to celebrate his ninth birthday without us.  We’re grateful that we were able to send a cake to him to help him celebrate.  We also found out that we would not be able to continue the adoption process until that summer.

In February, Emmie had spinal fusion surgery in her cervical (neck) spine.  This was a big highlight in our year since no one knew exactly what would happen or how she would do with it.  We praise God that she not only made it through surgery with no complications, but we are now 10 months out and the bones are fusing!

March brought two beautiful kiddos birthdays, Ceili Rain turned 7 and Malachi turned 4.   We enjoyed celebrating Easter with our church family.  Emmie had her halo removed (after 8 months in it) on March 30th.

April was a much cherished and random “quiet” month if you don’t count the kids’ annual school testing and mom’s weekend away with Tracy.  Mark and I celebrated 20 years of dating.

May passed by with Emmie’s 2nd birthday.  We had a wonderful beach trip, watched brave pirates, and met some sea lions.  We turned in our dossier 2.0.  And Mark and I celebrated our 16th year of marriage.

June was another quiet month but news came we would be traveling to Ukraine in July (and later in August).  I traveled to Austin, Texas for the NF Forum.  Emmie had her final neck brace off on June 10th!  Emmie had her sixth MRI and found her UGGHH was stable!  We celebrated Josiah’s 9th birthday.

July saw Zoe (her first plane ride and international trip), Mark and I traveling to Ukraine for our “second” first trip.  We got to visit with our Silas, sightsee in Kiev and in Vienna.  While recovering from jet lag, we managed to celebrate Ace’s 12th birthday and Bryant’s 6th one!  And, last, but not least, Mark’s birthday.

August was THE month to have Silas become a permanent part of our family.  He became a Character, officially, on August 9th.  While Mark was finishing up the paperwork and requirements in Ukraine, Josiah decided life was too boring.  He made an unscheduled stop at the hospital to have his appendix removed.  We, once again, praise God for our proactive pediatrician.  We’re also very thankful that his appendix didn’t burst!

In September, we welcomed home Mark and Silas and began our journey as a family of eleven by attending our church’s annual family camp.  We started school pretty soon after and took a break here and there to go to the zoo and talk like a pirate.

October was another “quiet” month and we enjoyed settling in to school, learning to read and being a family.

November was just the opposite of October!  We had my birthday (one year closer to 40).  Our first NF walk went off without a problem and lots of smiles and laughter.  All total, we raised over $7000 for NF Research!  Liam started wearing glasses this month. We celebrated Thanksgiving with Papa and Grandmere.  Mark and I learned that God had chosen to give us a new addition.

December brought joys, trials, and sadness.  We found out early in the month that we were expecting twins but the babies, sadly, did not make it (“not viable” in medical terms).  This has been one of the hardest miscarriages (mentally, not physically) yet and I learned later in the month that twin pregnancy losses can sometimes feel harder, even if they are early miscarriages.  We rejoiced over Emmie’s spinal fusion successes and UGGHH continuing to behave.  We also learned that she has another plexiform in her hip muscle as well as scoliosis.  Recently, we have noticed a very small plexiform on her armpit.  Also mixed in with all of our news, we mourned the loss of my uncle too close to Christmas and rejoiced in the time we knew him here on earth. Despite the hardships, trials and struggles this month, we have been able to fully rejoice in our Savior’s birth.  We are continually reminded that we are not facing these struggles alone because He is always with us.  We continue to feel God’s guiding, gentle, and loving hand leading, comforting and sometimes carrying us through.

Looking ahead…we have some fun trips planned for the kids and new experiences for us all (I’m going to be homeschooling a high schooler ya’ll!)!  We can not wait to see what the Lord does in and through us this coming year.  Yes, with new diagnoses, we are looking at another year of uncertainties and deductibles met too soon as well as meeting new specialists…but we know the Lord has carried us this far and we will continue to walk where He leads.  Two things are certain, we’ll continue to raise awareness of NF and also advocate for children who need a home.

**I know that I started out with links and continued on to what I had actually posted.  I’m doing my best to get everything up to date.  Our months have been very busy since August!  For now, we have an easy way to read up on our fun and crazy year.**

 

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