Christmas at CHOA

Emmie had an appointment at the beginning of December.  It was fun seeing the hospital all festive.IMG_20151204_104500518 Baby and Emmie were waiting patiently for an x-ray.
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IMG_20151204_114554917 The weather was pretty decent and we had free time after the x-rays before Emmie’s appointment.  We wandered down to the koi pond.  On previous trips, they were doing construction and it was all closed.  I thought it was just a little pond.  Nope.  They have a small basketball area, green space to kick a soccer ball around and a small putting green.  IMG_20151204_114556643 IMG_20151204_114611796 Our kids had a wonderful time!IMG_20151204_114825387 Bryant had to get a picture by the turtle.IMG_20151204_114906360 Putting away!

I love that our kids are always up for an adventure and can have fun wherever they are.

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You Can Have It

He stretched out his hand to reveal a crumpled one dollar bill and four quarters.

“Here mama,” he said.  “You can have it.  It’s two dollars for your adoption.”

No words.  I couldn’t say anything as I graciously held on to the two dollars our five year old, Bryant put in my hands.  For him, that was all the money he had.  But he wanted to use it for his brother.

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The afternoon before, three eager young faces came bouncing in from outside.  They were planning and plotting and had an idea.

“Mama, we want to sell hot chocolate to raise money for the adoption. Can we?”

My response was, “Sure but, unfortunately, I’m not too sure hot chocolate will sell in this 75 degree weather we are having.” But then they never had to.

Please don’t think we are telling the kids we have no money and they have to give.  We haven’t.  They have helped with a lot of fundraisers.  They see friends and family giving and encouraging us and, I think, they just want a piece of the action.  To be able to give and do something.

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December 20th, a text came through from friends.  “What do you need to finish paying for your adoption?”  Mark and I looked at the paperwork and responded back a high sum.  Then Mark remembered money that was coming in from one place.  Then another.  And the number continued to shrink.  I sent them what I thought was a modest amount when Mark spoke up and said he thought it would be closer to a number a bit smaller.  After he said that, I looked down at my phone.  Our dear friends wanted to donate the amount he just said.

Just like that.  Our fundraising for adoption.  Less than a year of working.  Less than a year of me worrying more than I should have been trusting.  And we’re done.  God has provided.  I know He is the provider.  To see His hand move over something that I just knew, at times, would be near to impossible without us going in to massive debt.  God spoke peace over our adoption processes over and over with incidences like this.

We praise Him for providing but also for who He is and how He is working in our family.

I was told by lots of dear friends who have been there that this road was long and hard and heartbreaking.  I understand now what they meant.  We won’t be able to travel until sometime after June.  As hard as this is, we are trusting God for His timing and that He is watching over our Y the Brave.

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Getting Real

Well, it’s been five months, an ER trip and multiple x-rays.  This is the magical time that we have been waiting on since Emmie fell in August. Originally, Emmie was supposed to go in on January 8th, but our neurosurgeon, Dr. C needed to see the CT scan first.  Fast forward a few weeks and then there we were.

Thursday Emmie had a CT scan under general anesthesia.  After she was done, we met up with Emmie’s neurologist, Dr. W.   Then Friday, we were back at CHOA to meet with Dr. C.

Emmie did wonderful on Thursday.  Naturally, she cried as soon as we entered her room in Day Surgery but she soon calmed down.  The nurses are starting to recognize us too.  1453383598194 This was after the “happy juice.”  That and whatever anesthesia they used made her think she was The Flash.  After she woke up, she tried to get up out of our arms.  When we were discharged and walking down the lobby to the cafeteria, she tried to run.  She didn’t run before the super meds…but yet she thought she could on unsteady legs.  We got a kick out of her trying to be so independent.IMG_20160121_065823067

We’re always a bit nervous on scan days because of the results we have gotten in the past.  This time, was not as painful.  From what Dr. W could tell, the plexiform (tumor) is staying in her neck.  Because she didn’t cry out in pain when we press on the plexiform, he also felt it was a good sign.  She smiled for him and allowed him to do a neurological exam.  She is still on track for being pretty much awesome.   We know the plexiform has grown from what we can feel but the specifics can not be seen except on an MRI.  Once the surgery is done and halo is off, she’ll be having an MRI to get a better look at the plexiform.

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Little bit was super exhausted when we left CHOA.  When Emmie is anxious, she wants to hold our hands especially when she sleeps.

Friday was very hard.  We knew that the detailed appointment was coming.  We just weren’t prepared for the reality to settle in with all the details.  Now it’s real.  Now it’s game time.  We were reminded once again that Emmie’s spine at this age is not the norm for the medical community.  We are so grateful that Dr. C has been reaching out to other neurosurgeons across the country to make sure he is doing the best thing for her.

Before I dive into surgery details, I wanted to mention something.  Several people have assumed that the halo is the fix.  It’s not.  That’s easy to think because most of the time when an adult or older child has a halo, it is because they have a break.  Just always keep in mind that Emmie is different.  The halo brace was placed to keep her spine stable until her bones were strong enough to take a surgery to them.  The doctors did not want to keep her in a halo much more than five months without trying to correct the spine (halos fail after a certain amount of time and constantly have to be monitored.  Also, she has grown quite a bit since August).

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This was the curve in August using MRI (the details on the spine are not as clear as a CT) and before the halo traction.

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This is the CT scan from Thursday, the 21st.

There has been some improvement from the scan in August but it has stayed completely the same since after traction.  The good news is that the halo has and is continuing to keep her spine stable.

She’ll have surgery sometime in February, probably toward the middle of the month.  She’ll be in the hospital for 7 to 10 days.  However, Dr. C estimated 3 to 4 days for the plexiform re-section in April and she was only there 24 hours.  We know we’ll be there longer than 24 hours but would be super excited if it was less than 10 days.   After surgery, she’ll remain in the halo for at least six weeks to continue to allow her spine to strengthen.  Then, the halo will come off and they’ll monitor her really closely for awhile.  If there is any indication that the spine is beginning to bend again, she’ll be put back in the halo.

Surgery is going to be long.  A lot of decisions they make will be when they start the procedure.  Right now the surgery consists of three parts:

  1.  They’ll remove more of the plexiform to get to the spine.
  2. Anterior-They’ll go in to the front and remove and replace two of the vertebrae (the two that are shaped like triangles but supposed to be rectangles). The replacements will have to be custom made for Emmie because they don’t make them small enough for her.
  3. Posterior-To provide more stability, they’ll put in rods in the back of her neck and will fasten those with either pins or wires depending on the bone thickness.

There it is.  The condensed version of what is going to go down in the coming months.

Dr. C thinks the world of Emmie and we are trusting God to provide healing for our amazing super hero.  Right now, I don’t know what to think.  My brain is in planning mode, but experience tells me to enjoy each moment with our family right now.  Now is when we’re reminded that we aren’t in control and that each moment is precious.

We’ve put together some shirts to go along with Emmie’s fight.  This campaign closes on February 1st.  Check them out here.

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November Randoms

Woohoo!  I may be caught up by the middle of February.  Hold on to your hats!IMG_20151102_123753966 IMG_20151102_190039490 My friend, Tracy’s baby J.  In the corner.  Uh oh.
IMG_20151102_195645063 And Baby J hanging out with the other bestie, Kristina.  She was cuddling with her.  Too cute.
IMG_20151119_151618913_HDR Malachi loves Ukrainian chocolate.  I totally understand.IMG_20151123_102217205 One Monday.  Paint everywhere.    This was not a fun way to start the week.IMG_20151123_110632249 Thankfully, with a lot of elbow grease from Zoe and myself we were able to get to this.  I also saved most of the paint.IMG_20151125_081947788 Emmie loves her pancakes.IMG_20151126_083638948 And her goofy “Bubble.”  Best consignment sale find ever…this was a great goofy jacket that has gotten much use this season.IMG_20151129_191959637 Emmie likes to steal my bracelets and wear them.IMG_20151129_192659399_HDR

Helping Mama get miles in by wearing the fitbit on her neck.  Sure.  Why not?

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The Perfect Tree

IMG_20151127_132358283_HDR We’re those crazy people you see with the tree on top of their 12 passenger van.  Oh yes.  We are those people.

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We loved the tree farm we went to for a couple of years but when we saw a different tree farm advertised and the prices they were promoting.  Well, we had to go.  The selection was not wonderful but I almost convinced Mark to get a 12 foot tree for $30.  So, the price was just right.  The people that ran the farm were super nice too.

While we didn’t get a 12 foot tree, we got the next largest.

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It was so big ya’ll!

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We put the tree in our two story entryway so we have room.  Mark, however, had to do some trimming on the bottom and the big tree wound up being a good size but not too large.

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It was full of holes.  Bare on the bottom.  Not perfect by any one’s eyes.  But when we put it up and threw our memories on it…well, it was just perfect for us.

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Our decoration was slow.  I was lagging the whole season as the reality that Y was not going to be home by Christmas sunk in.  And then we were creeping closer and closer to Emmie’s appointment to discuss surgery.    But we had some really precious moments…

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Emmie had to stare at the nativity (that my grandmother had painted a lot of years ago).  She loved pointing to Jesus and saying, “Baby.”  Those precious moments helped my sad heart to make it through the season.

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Thanksgiving 2015

IMG_20151126_124215207_HDR IMG_20151126_131151973_HDRIt took me a good week to sleep off the jet lag which meant that when Thanksgiving came around, I was just coming out of the fog.  We managed to pull together a spread for our family.  We rotate our Thanksgiving every year.  One year we’ll hit up Grandmere and Papa’s house.  The next year is Ge and Granddaddy’s turn and then the third year is at home.  I love to cook Thanksgiving dinner.  It’s my absolute favorite meal.  This year, despite the fog, was no exception.  The only thing that could have made the day even more awesome would have been having Y home.

We made the most of it.  I even made homemade cranberry sauce which was yummy and super easy!

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Mark enjoyed the turkey leg.  Renaissance faire, anyone?!

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I made pies.  While they looked lovely, they did not taste too yummy.  Oh well, we’ll try for next year.

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We played outside with neighbors and made silly faces…IMG_20151126_172047512 IMG_20151126_172051905_HDRuntil it got dark.  Then we made a fire and roasted marshmallows!IMG_20151126_185956352

After Zoe got a couple of hours of sleep, I woke her up and we hit the sales (don’t freak out.  It was midnight).   IMG_20151127_043414069

We shopped with my friend, Tracy, until 7 in the morning!  And we missed all the crowds but still got all the deals.  Insane exhaustion ensued but we had a wonderful time!

 

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Back in the U.S.A.

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What packing for ten people for ten days looks like.

Skype and wi-fi kept our hearts from being torn and missing the kids to the point of insanity.  Grandparents and an aunt and uncle were super great about keeping us posted on their latest adventures back in the states.

Here’s what they were up to while we were away.

image1 (3) Yardwork!  Papa and Grandmere are not afraid to get some hard work out of these young whipper sappers.image1 (4) image2 (1) Okay, there was a bit of fun involved too.image3 (1) Grandmere has saved several of Mark’s Lego sets and my boys are forever grateful for that.image4 IMG_2683 I know it looks like work but I think they totally enjoyed this!

IMG_2691 Emmie practiced being cute and posing for the camera.  We are told she loved the fireplace to sit by and the cute yellow bear.IMG_2696 IMG_2698 The park!IMG_2713 Papa’s traditional s’mores roast and fire pit.IMG_2727 IMG_2731 There’s something or someone hiding up there…IMG_2732 See?IMG_2735 Ceili Rain and Liam loved chasing the chickens at Uncle and Aunt B’s house.IMG_2736 IMG_2739 Emmie got in some play time with cousin A.  They are just three weeks apart.IMG_2748 (1) My boys enjoyed snuggling up before bed at Uncle & Aunt B’s house.
.IMG_20151116_083732204 Hauling wood with the cousins.IMG_20151116_094846427 Aunt B outfitted our boys in some good work clothes.  This has to be one of my favorite pictures!  I love seeing our kids so close to their cousins.  They truly enjoy every minute they’re with them.IMG_20151116_095810457_HDR Getting ready for a bonfire at Uncle B’s.

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Despite all the skyping and photo updates, this was a sight for sore eyes.  We were so glad to have our crew back together (almost…still waiting on our guy in Europe).

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Beautiful Italy

The conversation went like this:

Mark:  If you could go anywhere in Europe for a day, where would you go.

Me:  Venice!

Mark:  Really?  Venice?  I never would have thought that.

So, I had to explain.  Ireland is top choice.  But that is a two week trip.  Not a day.  I don’t think I could handle being in Ireland for just a day.  Paris would be amazing but we thought that might be a trip for later.  I’ve always wanted to see Venice and the water streets.

Because Mark is awesome, he made it happen.  We found a cheap hotel.  We ate cheaply and we toured cheaply.  But, we did it.  DSC_3801 Mark said this was the plug for the islands.  Open it and we are all going down.  Really, it’s a well of some sort.  We saw several people getting water out of it.

DSC_3804 Just pretty fresh fruit.DSC_3810 DSC_3816 DSC_3820 We could not get over the architecture and art in general.DSC_3824 DSC_3829 San Marcos Plaza

Amazing!DSC_3832 Bascilica de San Marcos.  Ya’ll, I can’t even begin to describe what this was like.  This church was so beautiful.DSC_3834 DSC_3835 DSC_3851 DSC_3861 The doges palace and the symbol of Venice.

DSC_3871 As we were walking around San Marcos Plaza, we noticed a bell tower.  Going in for further inspection, we realized we could go up in the tower and get an audio tour of Venice for $16 total.  Hm, good deal and we get an overview.  Let me tell ya’ll.  If you are a doing Venice on a budget and time constraint, this is the way to go.  We learned a lot about the city and got to see some amazing sites.
DSC_3875 DSC_3899 My beret…I forgot to get a hat and it was a bit nippy.  Thankfully, the vendors in the streets who were selling “souvenirs” made in China, gave me a great deal.DSC_3911 How firefighers roll in Venice.
DSC_3919 I wanted a cannoli because we were in Italy. We searched all day and finally found them.  The reason it was so hard:  cannolis are from Sicily.  Oh well.  I still got one in Italy.IMG_20151116_100353529 Eek!  the colors of the buildings.  The colors of the water!  I felt like we were walking through an amusement park set up to look like Italy.

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The Plaza in panorama.
IMG_20151116_151657863 For Tracy…maybe we should get a pedicure like this next time.  There were fish in the water.  They nibbled off your dead skin.  Ew.

IMG_20151116_152752468 So, yeah.  We did the touristry thing.  We splurged on a touristry gondola ride.  When would we ever go to Venice again?  We didn’t want to regret not doing it.IMG_20151116_155558487 It was totally worth it.  Our gondolier even sang.  It was a beautiful neat tour of the city.

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I’ll have you know that we did not give in to the plethora of selfie stick vendors.  This masterpiece was made with our own arm extensions (which explains why Mark’s chin is cut off).IMG_20151116_183451398 Um, the most yummy splurge.  This is a Magnum Ice Cream Bar.  Sure, you can get itty bitty  Magnum ice cream in the states.  But this is a restaurant/bar that serves ice cream bars.  You pick your bar flavor.  Then you pick your dip flavor and toppings.  Next you pick your drizzle.  Then you die and go to heaven.  It was so yummy and fun!IMG_20151116_183742531_HDR

Our funny for this part of the trip.  We stayed at a bed and breakfast.  At breakfast, the proprieter asked Mark if we wanted coffee Americano, cappucino, latte, etc. Mark didn’t feel adventurous (since he usually drinks black coffee).  So, he ordered Americano coffee.  The next guests come down and we hear the owner say, “Oh, coffee Americano, instant coffee.”  Ugh.  We came all the way to Venice to get cheap instant coffee.  Mark decided from then on he was getting lattes when we travel abroad (world travelers that we are).

 

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Looking Back

What a year!  Since I actually accomplished a Christmas letter (even though it was sent out after Christmas).  I’ll just post it here for to review our year.

Hello to our friends and family!

We have lots of sayings in our home.  Mark likes to say our family motto is, “Go!  Go!  Go!” I often tell awestruck onlookers that “life is never boring around here.”

2015 has proven to live up to both of those sayings.   In a nutshell:  We have hosted an orphan again, started the adoption process, taken a couple of trips to the ER, spent ten days in the hospital with one of our babies, gone to the beach, gone to the mountains, gone to the lake,and traveled to Atlanta (through rush hour no less) more times than I care to count.  Oh, and traveled to Ukraine and Italy and through Germany and Austria.  You know.  Just an average life in a house full of Characters.

Mark and I are trying to wrap our heads around the fact that our oldest, Zoe, is now a teenager.  She is a delight and while we are wading through the emotions that come with this age, we can truly say that we are enjoying this time with our young lady.  She is excelling in her schoolwork.  This year we have found that God has blessed her with a gift and love of languages.  She has taught herself several language including French, Mandarin Chinese, Elvish, and Ukrainian with a side of Russian.  Formally, she is learning Spanish for school and almost complete with level 1.  We are so excited to see where God will take her with that.  She is also in church choir and other extra curricular activities to ensure she is getting properly socialized.

Ace is cruising along in 6th grade.  He is getting quite the sense of humor and always keeps us on our toes.  He is proving to be a wonderful asset in the big brother department and learning to change diapers.  We are excited to see that he is developing strong leadership skills too!  Legos take up a bit of time too.

Liam is still our ball full of passion and energy.  He sees life and tackles it head first.  He is now in 4th grade and, once he gets going, is doing wonderful with his work.  He loves his little brothers and sisters and loves to help with them.  And play with Legos.  Legos are important.

Josiah is closest in age to Liam and the extreme opposite.  Those of you who knew Mark as a young boy, will be glad to know he has a clone.  He makes us laugh and tries to maintain peace.  He has a great relationship with Liam and is continuing to take his big buddy role with Emmie quite seriously.  Josiah is halfway through his 3rd grade year.  Legos are the prime source of entertainment for this one.  And reading.

Ceili Rain enthusiastically attacked 1st grade this year.  She continues to be our princess ninja and can not decide whether she wants to be a singer, an artist, or a librarian.  The latter thrills her grandmom to no end.  We still are expecting something in the medical field as she is the prime boo-boo bandager in the house.

Bryant “officially” started school this year.  He is learning to read and doing very well.  He loves to give hugs and make Emmie laugh.  Oh, and did I mention our boys love Legos?

Malachi is “free” (that’s three in toddler talk).  If you asked him, he would tell you he is the sole protector of his baby sister.  He thinks she hung the moon.  Oh, who am I kidding.  All of the kids think she hung the moon.  Anyway, Malachi loves all things Legos and is not hesitant to follow Ceili Rain and Bryant in whatever exploits (aka destruction) they have going on.

Emmie turned one this year and had quite the year.  She continues to fight Neurofibromatosis Type 1 as her alter ego, Super Ems.  In the medical world, she had surgery in April to remove a portion of the tumor (plexiform) growing in her neck.  She went through seven neck braces before the orthotist found one that was indestructible by a stubborn forward bending spine and a busy toddler learning to walk.  Unfortunately, that brace was short lived as a fall in August sent us back to the hospital for a few days and eventually, Emmie was put in a halo brace to try and keep the bend from worsening and allow her bones to get stronger.  She’ll have surgery in January or February to try and correct her spine and then a few more months in her “princess” tiara halo.    She makes us laugh daily as she giggles and toddles and grabs markers to color whatever she finds.  She loves babies with a passion.  She has so many stuffed animals that it’s not uncommon to see an animal in her arms at all times.  And don’t get me started on how much she adores her brothers and sisters.  She knows that she is their favorite and milks it for all it’s worth.  She is talking more every day and we love to laugh and cheer at her new words.

Yarik, our host son from last winter is now on the track to become our adopted son.  We pray we are able to bring him home soon and trusting God for His provision and guidance.  Adoption is not easy.  At all.  But, we have seen so many answered prayers and so much of God’s hand on us.  We have peace even in the midst of the waiting.  Yarik turns 9 in January.  He is just one of the family.  Easy-going and huggable and goofy and fun. And he’s a boy in our house which means he likes Legos.

Mark and I traveled to Ukraine on our first adoption trip this past November.  We also snuck in a train ride through Germany, Austria and Italy and a quick stay in Venice.  Ukraine and the history and the people are absolutely amazing.  So rich and powerful.   We survived the nine hour flights with no shower or sleep (well, Mark slept but Abbie was wide awake on the way over).  Jet lag pulled at us but we persevered.  Venice was exactly like the pictures and being there was un-real.

I know it doesn’t look like it, but this is the Cliff’s Notes version of our life this year.  The best way to get in depth details (if you are still awake after reading all of this) of our adventures, prayer needs, adoption, and NF is to follow our blog at www.bunchofcharacters.com.  We also just started a facebook page where we can post quick updates: www.facebook.com/bunchofcharacters

If you are still reading, we want to share some closing thoughts. Our year has definitely been a roller coaster with lots of twists, turns, and loops.  We have grown so much in our faith in Christ and our love for our family this year.  We have learned that each day is very precious and that our children are gifts from God.  We also know that He alone has control over their lives and while we try to squeeze tight to that control, God is lovingly showing us that He knows best what they need.  He already has their lives planned out.  We have learned to see God in the mundane and the big things and to praise Him through it all.

May your life be blessed with Christ’s love this coming year and may you see His hand move in mighty ways.

Merry Christmas!

The Characters

Mark, Abbie, Zoe, Ace, Liam, Josiah, Ceili Rain, Bryant, Malachi, Emmie, and Yarik

 

“Now to Him who is able to do far more abundantly than all that we ask or think, according to the Power at work within us, to Him be glory in the church and in Christ Jesus throughout all generations, forever, and ever.  Amen.”

-Ephesians 3:20-21

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Beautiful Land

We arrived on a Sunday late afternoon.  Completely exhausted.  After we got settled in to our apartment, we went to a pizza place right next door.   Apparently, Italian restaurants are very popular in Ukraine.  We saw a lot of them and ate at a few.  DSC_3706 This is me trying to stay awake.  My pants make look funky but they were oh so comfy and perfect for a long flight.  I just look rough but I thought I would keep it real.

 

So, on Sunday, our transport parallel parked and we were pleasantly surprised to find the city so quiet and peaceful.  IMG_20151111_073048766_HDRMonday, however, was a different story… DSC_3707

The two lane street became one lane and there were policemen directing traffic and parking cars on the street.  We later found out that they don’t have parking garages in the city but are still dealing with building built several hundred years ago.

We loved our little apartment.  After skyping with the kids on Sunday night around 8:30 where we were and with about six hours of sleep between the two of us, we hit the hay and woke up briskly when one of our facilitators called us at 10:30 am the next day.  Never in my life have I slept so long.  It was heavenly!

We assured our facilitator we were good and fixed a brunch of oatmeal and whatever we could find and read and then headed out to explore the city.  I’m glad we had a day to recoup and recover from flying.  It was nice to relax and prepare mentally for what would be a long week.

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These churches are amazing and while most have had to be remodeled and renovated, they still resound with the architecture and design that was very common in orthodox churches built in the Byzantine Empire (that would be around the 11th century).DSC_3722

St. Sophia’s Cathedral and one of the most popular stops in Kiev.  Absolutely beautiful! DSC_3720

The statue is of Yaroslav the Wise.  The most famous king of Ukraine.  His remains are interred in St. Sophia’s.

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Yaroslav the Wise at the reconstructed Golden Gates.
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St. Volodomir’s Cathedral.  This church was bright and cheerful.  It was close to our apartment and just beautiful to walk by.  Mark and I stopped several times as we passed it just to stare.

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Beautiful folk art on the buildings.  We saw a lot of this when we drove out of the city.

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St. Andrew’s Cathedral.  It was being renovated but it was just as beautiful.

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Another cool statue.  There were several cool statues all over the city.

What we thought was our last night in Kiev, we decided to go to the opera.  The opera house has a different show every night and while the prices appear high, if you calculate them in to American currency, we got amazing box seat tickets for the price one would pay for a nosebleed seat here.

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The Opera House.  It was just as beautiful inside as it is out.

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Inlaid wood floors.

We met up with another family who was in the process of adopting (I say was because they should be coming home on Thursday!  Eek!).  After eating supper, they decided to “splurge” and go to the opera with us.  We saw Aida.  An Italian opera.  About an Ethiopian and Egyptian.  In Ukraine.  It was a multi-cultural experience to say the least.  They had a screen set up on stage that translated the words to Ukainian.  Now that was super neat to see.

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We had Ukrainian chocolate at the Italian opera.  Can I just say, yummy?  Best chocolate I’ve had ever.

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Our new friends with a random stranger in the far background.  I think he thought we were all insane but we had a great time.

After all our paperwork stuff, we finally got to travel to see Y on Thursday.  We were blessed to be able to spend time with him Thursday, Friday and Saturday.  Now Y is only 8.  He has no real access to computers or any way to communicate with us.  He had no clue we were coming.  He had no clue we were working to adopt him.  Can you imagine the look on his face when he walked in to the director’s office and saw us?  Sheer joy!  I cried happy tears.  After we got some awesome hugs, the first thing he did was ask about Emmie.  See, he’s our son.  He asks about the favorite sibling first!

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One of my favorite pictures.  That’s a whole lot of happiness right there.

IMG_20151113_161911882_HDR Mark enjoyed playing around the grounds with the kids.IMG_20151114_113001971 All of his friends were super nice and loved to talk to us a mile a minute.  In Ukrainian.  They worked some on their English and laughed when we tried to speak Ukrainian.IMG_20151114_114615767 We brought a small amount of toys and they were eager to see what we had for them.  They were grateful and sweet with them.IMG_20151114_123421751 Y’s buddy N.  They are a close knit group of kids.IMG_20151114_135722683 Our playmates on Saturday.  They don’t have school on Saturday.  We were able to spend a bit more time than the previous two days but it still wasn’t enough for us, of course.IMG_20151114_123444712

Friday night we stayed in an apartment very similar to a typical Ukrainian apartment.  It was small and cozy and warm.

IMG_20151114_151557764Not our apartment building but similar to it.IMG_20151113_185547367 Two sets of cute plates in the kitchen we were in.IMG_20151113_185534870

Now for the food…We tried getting multiple pictures of our food.  Everything was so incredibly tasty!  We loved it all and after each meal would say, “I think this is the best meal we have had here.”

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IMG_20151111_175325143This was close to a Ukrainian dish.  Pelmeni and veggies with cheese.  And homemade sour cream.
IMG_20151113_183440689 My birthday was on Saturday and Mark and I thought we would celebrate with cupcakes on Friday.  Well we thought they were cupcakes…IMG_20151113_194718308

Nope.  Meringue in pastry shell.  Yummy but super sweet.

IMG_20151114_162644914 My birthday supper.  They call these pancakes but they are thin like crepes.  Stuffed with mushrooms and chicken. IMG_20151114_164906264

Mark had salmon and fries.  This was where we learned that the whole bottle of “tomato sauce” we used on our pasta one night was actually ketchup.IMG_20151114_164902490 Grilled veggies
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Borscht!  So much better than what I can make.

IMG_20151110_174253610 This is the look I give when I want Mark to stop taking pictures.  I did actually cook in our apartment a bit.IMG_20151110_080324848

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Here’s our pasta, sausage and ketchup.  It really wasn’t too bad.  There are no preservatives in foods like here.  So, everything tastes a bit better.IMG_20151111_110638841

We stopped at McDonald’s to grab some drinks one afternoon.

Long post but that is a pictorial overview of our time in Ukraine.  We can’t wait to go back.

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